If you don’t feel your husband loves you, your marriage can’t be healthy. Thing is, his loving you and you feeling loved may not go hand in hand. Ultimately, what you feel is what matters.
If you do not feel loved, saying, “I do not feel loved” is better than “You do not love me.” If he does love you, saying he does not becomes a point of conflict. Conflict is not a good way to encourage him to show love in the way(s) you need.
Tell him you do not feel loved, and then tell him what would make you feel loved. Give him a challenge and see what he does with it.
I will be doing a post next week on the Generous Husband designed to help men understand what makes women feel loved. You can help me with that by sharing what makes you feel loved in this anonymous survey.
~ Paul – I’m XY, and I want to know how to make my lady feel loved!