I realise those two words together may seem intimidating, but it need not be. Adventure comes in various forms, and it need not be risky, illegal, or immoral. The adventure is in doing something beyond the norm. For most men adventure in small doses is enough, and there is no need for adventure every time you make love.
The thing about desires is they grow when left unmet. This is true for anything from needing a break to craving chocolate. His desire for a bit of sexual adventure is the same – it will get stronger if you ignore it. Occasional indulgence can satisfy desires, so try to be a bit adventurous once or twice a month. Push your limits a little at a time. Your husband will enjoy it, and maybe you will too.
I have avoided giving specific suggestions here because this will look different for each couple. If you want a safe place to get some ideas, I highly recommend the Hot, Holy & Humorous blog, where J writes about “Sex & Marriage, by God’s Design”.
~ Paul – I’m XY, and adventure is in my blood.