My wonderful wife has a gift for asking great questions. A couple of years ago she put together 365 questions for couples and made it available as a free download. Some of the questions are easy, others really make you think. She’s had a lot of feedback on this from women, and even from some men, who think it’s a great tool. One woman got creative and turned the questions into “pills” which she put into old prescription bottles. She and her hubby do one a day.
Questions are a great way to get to know each other better, and they can spark interesting conversations. There are a number of books out there offering a structured way for a couple to build their relationship with questions – I’ve listed a couple below. You can also find some interesting resources by Googling “questions for married couples”. I’d skim any list to be sure it does not colour outside the lines of your marriage, but there are some great lists to be found this way. Also check out 7 Questions Every Married Couple Should Ask Each Other To Improve Their Marriage from my friend Jerry.
~ Paul – I’m XY and my wife is the question queen!