A dozen or so years ago, a new holiday was “invented” by a group of men who said Valentine’s Day was all about and all for women. They proclaimed March 14th Steak and BJ Day.
Okay, the name is tacky, and trust me when I say you don’t want to go to the “official website”, but is there something worth considering here? I don’t mean the specific menu and sex act, I mean a day for him the way Valentine’s is often a day for you. Sure, he gets his birthday, but you have one of those too. You share your anniversary, and honestly, a lot of men think that is mostly for her too.
How about declaring a special day for your husband, giving him whatever it is you know he enjoys? Call it “TexMex, Sci-Fi and I’m on top day” or “Football with a special bedroom half-time show day” or whatever. Make it about the things he really enjoys, and do them with him. Sounds to me like a great way to show him you love him.
~ Paul – I’m XY, and TexMex rocks!