At the Authentic Intimacy conference, Dr. Juli Slattery said, “Men get oxytocin from sex, and you want him to have it.”
I explained in Grab Him By The Hormones! why you want him to have it, and some ways to help him get more. All the things I mentioned are good, but sex provides the ultimate dose of oxytocin for men. (It gives you a good shot too.)
Any sex act will boost his oxytocin, and the longer it lasts the better. Intercourse is particularly good, and orgasm gives the biggest boost regardless of how you get him there. An orgasm during intercourse is the ultimate if you want your hubby to have more oxytocin.
So aside from your drive and his drive, providing him with regular sex is a really good thing for you and for your marriage. Get him “hooked” and you’ll see some changes in how he acts. The changes aren’t conscious, they’re a result of how the oxytocin affects him. He may not be aware he’s acting differently. Give it a try, you may be very glad you did!
~ Paul – I’m XY, and my hormone savvy wife knows all about keeping me hooked.
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