Recently someone asked if I would tell low drive husbands the same thing I tell low drive wives.
Yes, absolutely. The Bible is clear on this one; a husband owes his wife sex just as much as a wife owes her husband sex.
Basically, I tell low drive men to “just do it because you should”. If you can’t get an erection use your hands, your mouth, or a toy. Beyond that, I tell them it needs to be more than just “servicing” – it needs to be loving and intimate. And finally, I tell them to do all they can to make intercourse part of it as often as possible.
A woman’s sex drive is a valid need that can only be met by her husband. Not meeting that need is unloving and contrary to what God requires – aka sin.
I don’t know that this post helps any of the refused women here, but since I was challenged on it I thought I’d address it.
~ Paul – I’m XY, and I think a man should take care of ALL his wife’s needs.