Many husbands, possibly most, have come to understand the holiday season as a time of less and poorer sex. The busyness of the season makes it hard to find time, while stress and tiredness make it less than great when it does happen.
There are a lot of things I could say about this, but I’ll keep it simple. When the holidays mean less sex, the clear message is “you are less important to me than what I’m doing for the holidays”. And, ladies, that hurts. It hurts a great deal.
How can you make sure you don’t send this message this year?
~ Paul – I’m XY, and I enjoy the holiday season more now that we do less.
Related Post: One of the men who reads The Generous Husband asked me to be sure you ladies saw the Have Some Slow, Easy, Mind-blowing Sex post I did a couple of weeks ago. This is the polar opposite of hurried sex. Making time for this kind of sex a few times between now and the New Year would certainly tell him he matters!