He’s Not a Child (Even if He Acts Like One!)

February 6, 2017

We’ve probably all heard a mother with three children talk about her four kids – calling her husband the forth. I don’t like hearing that, but honestly, I understand why some women feel that way. I’ve run into more than a few 30ish-year-old men who act more like teenagers half the time. But it’s not […]

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If He Can Warn You, Why Can’t He Stop?

February 3, 2017

So you’re enjoying sex with hubby. Then he informs you his climax is imminent, and a second or two later he’s done.  If he can warn you, why can’t he stop? The confusion here is that men tend to think of climax as starting when they feel the contractions of ejaculation. This is when semen […]

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Is Manipulation The Only Option Left?

February 1, 2017

Do you ever feel your husband is trying to manipulate you?  One reason people manipulate is nothing else has worked. All the other ways of dealing with something that bothers him have failed so he resorts to manipulation. I’m not saying this makes manipulation right, but if it’s why he manipulates then you can stop it […]

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Why He Won’t Talk: The One Lady Bloggers Miss

January 30, 2017

In the last few months, I’ve seen at least three women blog about why a husband won’t talk with his wife. All the posts were good and I ran most or all of them on Facebook and Twitter. But every one of the posts missed one big reason men stop talking with their wives. Many […]

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Do You Ask For What Feels Good?

January 27, 2017

Something I commonly hear from men is they have no idea how to arouse or pleasure their wife. Her body is a mystery and they can’t buy a clue to save their life. He may just charge ahead like he knows what to do, but odds are your guy would like some help.  In my TGH […]

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The Cost of Giving Up

January 25, 2017

A recent post from Ransomed Heart Ministries caught me with this; “I began to realize that what I’ve done for most of my life is resign myself to this idea: I’m really not going to have any lasting joy. And from that resignation, I’ve gone on to try and find what I could have. Women […]

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Ain’t Nobody Got Time For That!

January 23, 2017

I recently retweeted the following: A great start to the day: Cuddle together in bed before getting up. @ForBetterOrWhat As an empty nester who works from home, this is our norm. We don’t manage it every day, but it happens several times a week. If you have kids and/or either of you works a “normal job” […]

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My Conversation With A Low Drive Man

January 20, 2017

At one of our marriage events last year I had a chance to talk with a man who said he was the low drive spouse in his marriage. Given some of you here struggle with this, I thought what I learned would be of interest. I’ll call him George – not his real name. First […]

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