Valentine’s Day and Sex
On Monday, I mentioned doing something to make Valentine’s Day good for your husband. One obvious option is having sex.
Given Valentine’s Day is on Saturday this year, may I suggest you seduce him first thing in the morning? Initiate sex, or do something making it clear you are willing. Full sex with both of you climaxing would be his preference, but anything you’re willing to do for him would be well received. When you finish, give him a kiss, and say “Happy Valentine’s Day!”
There are several of advantages to doing it this way:
1) There is no pressure on you the rest of the day.
2) He can relax, rather than wondering if sex will occur.
3) You make it clear you are having sex with him because you love him, not because he passed the Valentine’s test.
4) If you really want to blow his mind, you can go again at bedtime.
BTW, if you are a higher drive wife, I’m deeply sorry. You might show him what sex means to you by telling him to skip the flowers, candy, and dinner, and just have sex with you.
Related Reading: My oh-so-generous wife wrote about this issue in Sex on VDay.