Join the Adventure!
I’ve talked a good deal about men’s need for adventure. I’ve also talked a little about you joining him in adventure.
Just as your cautious side can help him by tempering his craziness, his desire for adventure can help you by moving you into something bigger.
I believe God made us all, male and female, for adventure. Men may crave it more than women do, but women need it too. A “safe” life can become a life not worth living. We do better when we have challenges. New things help us grow and sharing new things causes marriage growth.
If your husband tries to draw you into adventure, resist the urge to resist. If what he suggests is too much for you, offer a compromise.
If your husband has stopped trying to draw you into adventure, apologise to him and ask him to keep inviting you.
You can also make the invitation to adventure. It’s a good thing for your marriage!
~ Paul – I’m XY, and my wife is joining me in an adventure!