Last week my friend Scott had a couple of great posts on changing the culture of your marriage. (Links at the end) It’s a valid and important issue for both spouses, but I think women have an edge on this one.
For whatever reason, the woman of the house has a good deal of influence over the emotional climate of the family – be it for good or bad. I know some of you agree with this, as several agreed with J’s commented on my Happy Wife, Happy Life? post: “It seems that the woman has a unique ability to set the tone in a household.” I’ve seen this in many households where I’ve been, and especially when I spend enough time to move past the guest stage.
I’ve certainly seen a man’s bad mood pull a family down, but rarely as fast or fully as a woman’s bad mood. Likewise for a positive, happy mood; her good mood seems to influence the rest of the family more than his good mood.
As Ben Parker said, “With great power comes great responsibility.”
~ Paul – I’m XY, and my wife’s mood affects me a good deal.
3 Simple Ways to Change the Culture of Your Marriage | Journey to Surrender
5 Important Questions About the Culture in Your Marriage | Journey to Surrender