Most men are up for sex pretty much any time. This is especially true for men younger than 40. Physically we desire sex most of the time, and we can perform even when we’re moderately tired or stressed. We find it easy to switch mental gears in general, and especially when it comes to sex. For a variety of reasons, the average wife has a smaller window of opportunity for good sex each day.

So may I suggest:

1. Explain this reality to your husband. He may not “get it”, but he doesn’t need to. He just needs to accept your sex opportunity window is shorter than 23 hours and 58 minutes a day.
2. Give him some idea when you window is likely to be open and when it’s likely to be closed. Don’t bury him in facts, just give him a few big usually true parameters.
3. When you know the window is closing for the day, give him a heads up.

~ Paul – I’m XY and I do windows!

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