A Week of All the Sex He Can Handle
This will be a radical idea for some of you but hear me out. If your husband has a higher drive than you have, or you both enjoy sex but are just too busy to have it as often as you both want, then offer him a week of all the sex he can handle.
First, please notice I did NOT say all the sex he wants, I said all he can handle. This is not about those things he wants that you don’t want, this is about quantity. Ideally, there will be a point in the week when you offer sex and he’s unwilling or unable to do it. Every man should find his sexual limit at least once!
Yes, this is going to take some planning. If he’s young, and even if he’s not, he may be able to climax more times in a day than you can imagine. At least the first few days. You need to schedule this for a week when you have the time and energy to deliver on the promise.
Again, this about quantity, so don’t make yourself sore. Offer him his preference when you can, but offer him something else when you should.
Won’t He Expect if Every Week?
I know some women will be unwilling to do this out of fear their hubby will then expect it all the time. However, this can be a great way to help him understand reality. Make sure he knows you cleared time for this and chose a week when it would be possible. If he wants this much sex all the time something will have to change to make it possible. The other side of this is you will help him understand he does have a limit by helping him find it. A lot of guys think they can do it three times a day every day because they have done it three times in one day on a few occasions. In reality, a few days of their maximum ability will take them to a point where both their desire and their ability to have sex come up against limits. He will probably come out of the week realising what he needs to be fully satisfied is much less than he thought.
How Do I Enact This?
I’d tell him flat out what you have planned. Tell him you want to give him a week of all the sex he can handle. Tell him the week you have picked, or work it out with him. Explain you’ll need to schedule it at a time when you can do it right.
If it helps, we have some coupons you can use over on The Marriage Bed. Download the DOC files, add text, and print. Or grab the PDF, print, then write in your text. There are a couple of Christmas coupons at the top of the page, and one especially for sex at the bottom.
~ Paul – I’m XY, and I know most husbands would love this gift.
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