Some men see Valentine’s Day as more of a gauntlet to be run than a holiday to be celebrated. Getting it right has no real benefit while getting it wrong will cost them big time. Oh, and by the way, he doesn’t get to know the rules or judging criteria. 

I realise this is an extreme, but as is often the case the extreme can help make a valid point. Many men struggle to understand what “being romantic” looks like. If they don’t know what it is, how can they do it well?

If your hubby makes an effort, please praise him for that. If he makes a mess, be generous with him. If he ignores it all together, I’m sorry and you have my prayers.

BTW: Making sex part of the day is a good way to keep most men from seeing V-day as a flop.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I try to romance my wife EVERY day.

Check this out! 

Tomorrow is the start of Sex Chat for Christian Wives. This podcast is being done by four ladies I know and respect. Last year Lori and I had the blessing of meeting all four of these women and their husbands. We shared a meal and hours of conversation with each couple and loved every moment of it. (But one waiter in Florida may still be getting over what he overheard!) 

These women have all been blogging about sex for a good while, and they come from different sexual backgrounds. This is a great mix of great women, and I’m sure it’s going to be a great resource. 

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