Watch How Hubby Applies the Golden Rule
Most of us apply The Golden Rule to our lives even without trying. Unless you’re a total jerk you try to be nice to people, and being nice often looks like doing for them what you wish others would do for you.
This human tendency can help you figure out what your husband wants from you. What he does, says, and offers you are probably good indicators of how he would like you to treat him. This is particularly true if what he does isn’t something you want – he’s not doing what you’ve asked for, so he is likely acting out of his own desires.
~ Paul – I’m XY, and my lovely bride is golden!