Afternoon Delight? Ain’t Nobody Got Time For That!
A year ago December there was a flurry of articles advocating having sex at 3 pm. This was caused by comments made by Alisa Vitti, author of WomanCode: Perfect Your Cycle, Amplify Your Fertility, Supercharge Your Sex Drive, and Become a Power Source. Vitti said male and female hormonal fluctuations made 3 pm the perfect time for sex. Men would be “more emotionally present” while women would be alert and energetic. Supposedly 3 pm is also the hour of the day when a woman is most likely to have an orgasm.
The science on this is suggestive at best, so take it with a number of grains of salt. That said, anecdotal evidence does seem to support this idea. Lori and I have had more afternoon sex the last few years because many times our afternoons were easy to free up while our evenings were booked and could run long. We both find afternoon sex is better on average, and most of the great sex we recall was in the afternoon.
If you have a “real job”, both of you work, or you have kids at home, you may think afternoon sex is impractical to impossible. May I suggest you make it happen on occasion even if it takes a bit of work? Give it a try and see if it’s all it’s cracked up to be. You might be limited to a couple of times a month, but it could well be worth it.
One good way to make this happen is to institute Sunday afternoon nap time. Yeah, your older kids will figure our you’re not napping, but it’s actually good for them to know mom and day enjoy each other sexually.
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~ Paul – I’m XY, and my wife is a delight any time of the day!