One of the common “sex fights” in marriages, is over pubic hair. Specifically, his desire for her to have little or none of the stuff.

There are all kinds of issues here, including her comfort. But let’s bypass all that and get to the real problem for some women: she thinks he wants her to do this because he saw it in porn.

In reality, the removal of pubic hair predates pornography. The ancient Egyptians did it, using pumice stones or razors made of flint. Some Greeks of old also went bare, either pulling the hair out or burning it off.  (Ouch, ouch, ouch!) There are other examples through history. Because of the time involved, it was usually the upper class and/or women who provided sex who did this.

My point here is the idea of a bare vulva being sexy goes way, way back. I think part of it is being better able to see the vulva. But even more than that is the idea that a woman would do this for the man she loves. It’s taking time and energy for something he alone sees and enjoys. Every time he sees it, he is reminded she did it for him.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I’m not telling!

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