He Wants You To Be Impressed With Him Sexually
You know all those body issues and self-doubt you have? Your husband has some of his own of these things… with many of them being about his sexuality.
I saw one large survey in which almost three-quarters of men said their penis was smaller than average. Clearly, those numbers don’t mesh with reality. I’m sure if you asked men how they compare to the average for things like duration of sex, how long before they can go again, and how much they ejaculate, you would find the majority think they are below average. (Yes, some men
obsess are very worried about how much they ejaculate. I don’t know why.)
The bottom line here (sorry) is most men are unsure about their sexuality. They worry about their bodies and their abilities. Some men get so messed up by this it keeps them from having sex or interferes with their ability to have sex.
You can make a difference here. Any positive thing you say about any aspect of your hubby’s sexuality will be a blessing to him.
~ Paul – I’m XY, and once again I am at a loss for words here.
This particular feeling is EXCRUCIATING for men | Shaunti Feldhahn – Speaking of male insecurity… this post explains why your help is sometimes rejected rather rudely.
Q&A with J: What If Hubby Is Passive in the Bedroom? | Hot, Holy & Humorous – I know this is a concern for some of you here.