Over the last few months, I’ve had several women and one man request I write a post telling women how to give a handjob. 

This will be both longer and more explicit than what I usually do, so I’m going to post the first part and then give a link to the rest. The full article will contain a sketch of a penis, but no nudity.

Handjobs get a bad rap. Many treat them like the red-headed stepchild of sex acts. I’ve heard a few men say something along the lines of “If I want a hand, I’ll use mine.” I think some look down on handjobs because when they were younger a handjob was what one got when they couldn’t get a girl to do anything more. Once he’s married and can get “real sex” the idea of a handjob may seem beneath him.

As for women, perhaps some recall giving a handjob because some guy made them feel guilty about his arousal and it was the least they felt they could get by with. Hardly a memory that makes her want to use her hand on her husband. I’ve also heard from more than a few women who won’t do it because they have no idea how to do it.

In reality, a handjob can be a highly pleasurable experience for a man, and it can be a wonderful expression of love for a woman. When a man tells me he’s not into handjobs I assume he’s never had a good handjob and can’t even imagine what a great one would be like. From the female perspective, a handjob seems like a great option if she’s not interested in sex but he is and she wants to provide something for him. It’s not physically strenuous, she’s not left with a mess, and her jaw won’t get sore. It’s also an act that’s flexible; join him in the shower, do it during a commercial break, or offer it as dessert after dinner!

Please don’t let what I said about good and great worry you. Giving a good handjob is easy, and with a bit of practice, you will learn how to turn him inside out with your hand. One of the great things about a handjob is it’s all about him. He gets to lie back and enjoys while you drive him to new levels of physical pleasure.

Before we dive in, let’s get a bit of biology down…

Read the full article on The XY Code (skip down to below the hand and banana image)

~ Paul – I’m XY, and my wife is an expert at this one!

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