Have you ever felt men are obsessed with oral sex? Does your husband beg you to do oral on him? Does he pout if you say no?

Our survey on this issue does support the idea most men are really into oral sex. Forty-two percent of men said they would like to receive oral sex more often. And, among those who don’t get it at all more than half said it was a problem for their sex life.

So what’s the big deal?

• Well, first it feels good. 
• Then there’s the lie back and enjoy aspect. It makes him feel pampered and special and allows him to focus on his pleasure.
• And finally, we know some women won’t do it. If a man’s wife is willing to do this for him it makes him feel she must really care about him.

Isn’t it because of porn?

There’s no doubt oral sex features prominently in porn. But oral sex was a common thing long before porn existed. We have descriptions of oral sex in texts that are thousands of years old, and images of oral sex from long before that. Porn didn’t make oral sex popular, rather oral sex is in porn because men enjoy it so much. 

But, to climax?

• Most men want oral taken to orgasm at least some of the time. However, 18% said they would like it as foreplay with orgasm happening during intercourse. And 5% of men said they enjoy oral but can’t climax that way.
• As for swallowing, only 7% found that “important”, while 5% didn’t want their wife to do it. About a third like it but don’t find it important, and almost as many do not care either way. So for most guys, climaxing in the mouth is important, but after that, it’s not really a big deal.

Bottom Line

The vast majority of men would really like oral sex to be a regular part of sex. Not every time, and not always to climax, but more than once in a blue moon and sometimes all the way. 

~ Paul – I’m XY, well, you know.

How-to Links:

• HOW TO LOVE YOUR HUSBAND WITH ORAL SEX | Awaken Love
• Oral Sex: How To | Hot Holy & Humorous
• Oral Blessings | The Marriage Bed (by Chris “The Forgiven Wife” Taylor)

Survey: Childhood Sex Play When you were a child or young teen, did you engage in any willing sex play with other children or teens? This survey will be used for a couple of future posts, we would appreciate your anonymous responses.

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