Over on Quora, I answered the question “What is the most common fantasy of married men?” I thought it was worth sharing here.

Any guesses?

I’m going to tell you the fantasy most men have all the time about their wife. But they don’t share it because they feel it can never happen. What’s more, they fear telling their wife about it would mess up their sex life with her.

What most men want, is for their wife to deeply enjoy and passionately pursue sex with them.

Answers like “A threesome” are a fall back because it seems slightly more likely to happen than what he really wants.

I realise that might seem lame or tame, but I know a lot of men who would take that over anything else they could imagine. Sadly many men long ago gave up any hope of that fantasy coming true. 

~ Paul – I’m XY, and my wife rocks!

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