Many men are very sensitive (or hypersensitive) to manipulation. Any hint that you’re trying to control him or direct him may result in anger, withdrawal, or some other negative behaviour.

Usually, when a man is this way it’s because he’s been hurt by some woman who tried to control him. It may well have been his mother, or it could be a previous girlfriend. No one likes being controlled, and men seem especially resistant to it. 

Of course, the problem is when you feel like a nail, everything is a hammer. So a man sensitive to this may see control or manipulation when it’s not there, or when it’s very minor or not intended.

If your guy seems to be sensitive to this, be aware of what you say and do that might trigger him. If he does react, you might be able to resolve it by clarifying what you were doing. Phrases like “I’m not trying to tell you what to do” or “I’m just offering my opinion” might be a big help.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and my mom could be controlling.

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