Your husband has a need to help you. He wants to do things for you, he wants to be your hero.

However, many of us have been messed up by life and we no longer feel this as we should, or we go about it in odd/bad ways. Selfishness can also get in the way. But regardless, somewhere in that man you love is a desire to be helpful. If he offers help, accept it when you can. You can also ask for help. Something as simple as “would you open this jar for me” will make him feel good.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I realise this post and Monday’s Know When To NOT Offer Help post may seem like a double standard.

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