We know several couples currently potty-training boys. If you’ve ever done this, you know that set free from their diapers they can’t keep their hands off themselves. It seems they always have one, and often both hands, on or in their pants. The moms are frustrated, and dads smirk when mom’s not looking.

I’ve never seen a similar display from a little girl. I’m not saying there’s no curiosity or touching, but it’s nothing like you get with boys.

If you wonder why this happens it’s very simple: IT FEELS GOOD. Any contact with the penis feels nice. It’s mildly pleasurable, and it’s comforting. Because little boys neither know about nor care about such touching being private, they just do it.

Eventually, and way too long for mom, they learn to not do it in public. But that doesn’t change the fact it feels good. This is true for 3-year-olds, 13-years-olds, and 63-year-olds. That means it’s true for your husband, even if you don’t know it. I’m not saying he’s fondling himself when you’re not looking, but his body still works the same way it always has. 

I wonder what would happen if a wife took to occasionally doing some non-sexual foundling of her husband’s penis? If he’s complaining about a lack of sex this is a bad idea. However, if he’s happy about your sex life, or if you would like more, it might be an interesting experiment. After all, it feels good.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I’m sure my mother could tell stories…

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