I’ve heard a lot of guys complain about their wive’s emotions. They say she puts emotions ahead of rational thought and emotion. They also say tears are a form of blackmail.

I’m sure there are women guilty of these things, but I suspect much of the complaining by men comes from the fact that men and women put a different value on feelings. I’d say most of it is a matter of different, not wrong.

One thing I do see all too often is the idea that if a woman’s feeling are hurt, the man is wrong. Period. End of discussion.

If a woman’s feelings are hurt, then they are hurt. This is true even if the man had no intention of hurting her. However, that doesn’t make him wrong!

Should he apologise for unintentionally hurting her feelings? Yes. Should that be the end of it? YES!

Before you protest that, you should understand most wive’s unintentionally disrespect their husband from time to time. Again, she should apologise for that, and he should move on.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I’m big on moving on!

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