Most men are totally into having sex anywhere other than the bedroom. I could give you a long list, but what they all have in common is they are not on the bed in the bedroom.

The “why” for this is several reasons. 

• He wants sex to be a bigger part of your lives, not something limited to one room.
• Any variety turns him on.
• You being willing to go along with having sex outside the bedroom makes it seem you’re into enjoying sex with him.

I realise sex is far easier for men than women. Undressing you is all he needs to get fully aroused, and he can climax in almost any position that allows a bit of thrusting. Most women need more to get going, and more than awkward penetration to finish.

If you want to satisfy his desire for location variety without sacrificing your own pleasure (or comfort) you have some options:

• Do something other than intercourse. For example, exchange handjobs on the sofa.
• Have sex on the dining room table (or whatever) when he’s horny and you’re not.
• Do foreplay wherever then move to the bedroom.
• Let him have his fun, then ask him to take you to the bedroom and give you what you want.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and of course, the coffee table will hold you.

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