A while ago I read a blog post about when a wife can say no to sex. The first reason was she doesn’t feel like it.

But this post is not about sex. This post is about saying no to your husband when he wants anything.

Of course, we should have the right to say no because we don’t feel like it. But if that happens often something is wrong. Either you’re too busy, or you don’t care enough about giving your husband what he wants and needs.

The real danger in this is if it goes on for a while, he will decide you do it because you don’t care for him. What else should he think? If you cared, you’d find time and energy for what matters to him, right?

You can and should say no. But when you say it too often what you’re saying no to is your marriage!

~ Paul – I’m XY, and yes I’m doing this subject for the men too!

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