A few years ago a study was done on women’s sexual pleasure. A group of 1,000 women age 18 to 94 answered questions about how they orgasm and what kind of genital stimulation they enjoy. This was a random sample of women and was demographically very close to the population as a whole.

The big takeaway? Female sexual pleasure is not one size fits all.

The women described a wide variety of preferred sexual touch, with variations in location, pressure, shape and pattern of genital touch desired. Some women liked two or more forms of touch, but 41% wanted only one specific kind of touch.

In terms of intercourse, 18% of the women said intercourse alone could result in orgasm. Thirty-seven percent of women said they needed clitoral stimulation to orgasm during intercourse, and 36% reported they didn’t need clitoral stimulation, but their orgasms felt better if they received clitoral stimulation during intercourse.

What this means is your sexuality is unique. You’re not like any of your friends, and you’re not like any of his past girlfriends. Your body works in specific ways and there’s a good chance there is only one form of genital stimulation that works for you. This does not mean you’re broke; it means you’re normal!

If sex isn’t working for you, it’s because what is being done is not what you need. If this is the case, please speak up! Ask your husband to work with you to find what turns you on and what gets you off. There is a way, keep exploring until you find it.

Resource: Women’s Experiences With Genital Touching, Sexual Pleasure, and Orgasm: Results From a U.S. Probability Sample of Women Ages 18 to 94. | J Sex Marital Therapy

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I want every married woman to have mind-blowing sex!

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