It’s been almost two years since I suggested handjobs, so it seems like it’s time to bring it up again.

Handjobs are often treated like a third-rate sex act. I think this is because 1) most men have never had a great handjob and 2) most women don’t know how to give a great handjob.

The usefulness of handjobs as part of a couples sex life should be obvious. The wife can give her husband intimacy and sexual pleasure without a great deal of effort or mess. It’s a good way of showing she cares about his needs and desires and keeping his higher sex drive satisfied.

If your husband wants more sex than you want, I urge you to give this a try. My How To Give A Handjob article should give you a good starting place. If hubby is not enthusiastic about it tell him you think you can learn how to make it a mindblowing good time for him and ask him to let you practice regularly to get there.

~ Paul – I’m XY, if you’re higher drive, then hubby should be giving you handjobs!

Must-read post: A while back, Gary Thomas wrote a great post entitled The Good Guys. Given a bit of man-bashing recently, this seems like a good time to point to the post. Yes, there are men who are poor husbands. There are also men who go way above and beyond.

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