• Do you expect your husband to yell at you the way your dad yelled at your mom? Even though hubby has never yelled?
• Do you fear your husband will leave you, the way your first husband did?
• Are you waiting for the day your husband takes advantage of you sexually like that guy in college?

It’s human nature to expect what has happened in the past to happen again. And sadly we tend to put what others have done to us onto people who have given us no reason to think they would do these things. Of course, this is unfair and destructive, and that’s particularly true when it happens in a marriage.

If your past is giving you unrealistic fears about your husband, you need to deal with that ASAP. If you can’t deal with it alone, get some professional help. Left untreated, this kind of thing can cripple or kill an otherwise healthy marriage.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and, yeah, men do it too.

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