Every woman knows men are very sexually visual. But when I see women discuss this, I get the feeling most of them underestimate it significantly.

Even after almost 35 years of marriage, unexpectedly seeing my wife topless causes me to stop mid-sentence and often forget what I was talking about. And it’s that way even if we had sex an hour before. Can you extrapolate that to a younger guy who might not be having all the sex he wants?

On the positive side, this means you can do a lot for/to your husband with nudity or hints of nudity. And please spare me the “I’m not that good looking” stuff. Being his sex partner makes your nudity special and powerful. Unless he is sexually frustrated or low drive, your body does something good to him.

On the negative side, this is why visual temptation is so difficult for men. Imagine if you could actually taste chocolate when you see it, and you have a better idea what it’s like. I’m not justifying any guy’s sin here, but I do want you to understand how powerful this is and how much of an effort it takes to get control of it. You can help by saying something like “I’m sorry so many women don’t get it” when an immodestly clad woman walks by. If he feels you understand it will encourage him to try even harder.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and my 60 something wife really gets me going!

Great Post: Use Scent to Enhance Your Sex Life | THE FORGIVEN WIFE – I’ve written on this topic, but what Chris said in this post is way better than any of my attempts!

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