Although I rarely hear women say “All men are ______”, I see women acting as if that is so. Lori and I deal with women who expect their husband to cheat on them or hurt them or leave them because multiple men in their past did those things. And often there is no hint the guy would ever do what she thinks he will do.

Sometimes women like this actually do things to push their husband to do what they expect him to do. We’ve also seen women file for a divorce so they won’t be the victim of what they think he’s going to do.

I see this as failing to let go of the past. It’s letting her past control her future and it’s 100% about fear. It’s not fun digging up the past so you can deal with it, but in the long run, it’s less painful and destructive for you, your husband, and your children. 

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I want to see you set free from your past!

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