From time to time I hear a women claim her sexuality is like that of a man. And they are wrong.

They may have a stronger sex drive than most women. They may be less inhibited than most women. They may be able to have sex with no emotional connection or when most women would be too tired to care. But their sexuality is not like that of a man.

When I hear women talking about their male-like sex drive what I hear is not what men say. It may be closer than what most women say, but it’s not the same. Men don’t have a cycle that changes our sex drive during the month. Women don’t respond to nudity as fast and significantly as men do. And women don’t feel a massive bulge in their pants when they get good and horny.

What is “normal” for female sexuality is a mess, and I can certainly understand wanting to identify one’s sexuality in some other way. But when a woman claims her sexuality is like that of a man she looks clueless to men and makes God a liar.

Healthy female sexuality is a wonderful thing. Embrace that and help others get to the same place. Leave male sexuality for the men!

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I tried and failed to soften this little rant.

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