I regularly hear women complain about the time their husband spends out with his friends. I get it, really. If he just does things without any consideration of your life and schedule, that’s a problem.

Let me suggest a nonconfrontational fix.

Suggest to your husband he spend time with the guys, or whatever it is he does. Talk about when he will do it, and encourage him. This makes you part of the planning process, so at the very least you know when. If he’s not a total jerk, it also allows you to say “That day is bad for me, could you do it another day?”

You can also use the discussion to say “And BTW, I would really like to do ______ on ____.” Can we make that work?

~ Paul – I’m XY, and you both need time with your friends.

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