A while ago I suggested saying something to your husband. In the comments, a couple of you said it should not be necessary to say that.

I didn’t disagree with the statement, but I also find it irrelevant. I’ve seen both men and women get weird about this kind of thing. It’s like they want to punish their spouse for not knowing something they think he or she should know. How is that helping anyone?

If an explanation helps, give it. If telling him something you think he should know makes life better for one or both of you, tell him.

BTW, the ugly stepsister of this is saying “If you don’t know, I’m not telling you” when he asks why you’re angry.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I find communication helpful in marriages!

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