Over on Knowing Her Sexuality, J and Chris did a two-part series on Things Your Wife Hears about Sex (When You’re Not Around). Their goal was to help husbands understand what their wive’s are hearing from other women.

Given these things are somewhat common, I thought I’d make a few comments on them. Today I’m doing the first four from their first post. 

Sex Is a Burden

How sad. It makes something that should be wonderful for both a burden for her and far less enjoyable for him.

Very few men are okay with sex being a burden for their wife. When we’re young and so horny we can’t think we will try to pretend it’s not so. But as we get older we will be less and less interested in sex if our wife sees it as a burden.

You Should Be Having Sex

Most men are surprised that women say this to each other. It may not be the norm yet, but it’s more and more common. Yeah!

Sex Starts with Desire

J does a good job of explaining this is not the case for most women most of the time. This one really needs to die a fast death. “Needing” some foreplay to feel desire is normal for most women. I tell the men this often and I know I’ve mentioned it here at least once.

Sex Is Fun

Another one that surprises men. Good job, keep telling your friends this one!

~ Paul – I’m XY, and it’s not all bad news.

By the way, Knowing Her Sexuality is a great resource for your husband.

A post worth reading:

The Generous Wife | Believe the Best ◄ A great choice to make.

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