Today I’m looking at the second post J and Chris did on Things Your Wife Hears about Sex (When You’re Not Around). And yes, I’m working on what your husband hears about sex when you’re not around.

Men Want Women to Look Like a Supermodel and Act Like a Porn Star

I know this is very common for women to hear and to believe. It’s also not true of the vast majority of husbands. I’ve written about this several times and I always get a fight over it. It’s a lie most women believe and most men can’t do anything about. Very sad for everyone.

All Men Want Is Sex … and They Want It All the Time

This one is mostly true for teenage boys and many college-age guys. What women miss is the reality that men grow up. 

If your husband is unhappy with his sex life, the fact that he has not left you proves he cares about more than sex. As for wanting it all the time, if he’s getting a reasonable amount that’s not true. If he’s getting a fraction of what he needs, then it is true just like a starving man is still hungry after one small meal.

Sex Is a Weapon … and there’s nothing wrong with using it to get your way

This was followed with some examples:

• “The best way to stop an argument is to take your clothes off in the middle of it.”
• “If you want to convince your husband to agree to the vacation destination you want, offer him a blow job.”
• “The best time to ask him for something is right after he’s had an orgasm.”

I’ve talked to plenty of men who have been on the receiving end of this. They may enjoy the sex, but they don’t like the manipulation. Most will eventually stop accepting it.

The real crime of this on is it ruins sex for the woman! If you dole out sex as a reward and withhold it as punishment, then you have to ignore your own drive and pleasure.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I hope you will all see these things as lies to be challenged!

A post worth reading:

Gary Thomas | Beauty is a Blessing ► This will be challenging for some of you.

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