How would your husband respond if you looked him in the eye and said, “I want to make you come.”
Odds are he’d feel like this:

If you do this, it’s a gift that is all about him. It’s a treat, it’s about his enjoyment. It’s showing him that you care about him and understand his sexual needs.
If you’re the lower drive spouse in your marriage, this will be especially well received. If your drive matches or surpasses his, do it when you’re not feeling like sex. Or have him watch you masturbate first as a warm-up.
~ Paul – I’m XY, and I dare you!
A post worth reading:
The Generous Wife | Make Room for Masculinity ◄ It’s a matter of respect.
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