Most couples use the same one or two positions for sex and these are usually set early in the marriage. If the positions are great for both husband and wife, then it’s fine. But if you’ve been doing the same thing for a decade or more, odds are it’s no longer the best choice for one or both of you.

Many couples set their positions before the wife is fully enjoying sex and that’s a problem. Sometimes body image is a factor, causing a woman to reject a position out of fear of how it makes her look. Other times one spouse is initially uptight and won’t consider anything other than missionary. Additionally, changes in our bodies as we age affects what works best for us. And then there’s the fact that preferences change.

If you’ve been doing the same one, two, or three positions for many years, I suggest you try something new. Maybe try a new position every third time for a couple of months, or the first time you have sex each month for a year.

For the record, the most preferred positions for both men and women are 1) Rear entry 2) Missionary and 3) Cowgirl. I’d be sure to try those if any of them is not on your current list.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and variety is nice.

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Christian Friendly Sex Positions has enough positions to keep you busy for a very long time!

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