A lot of husbands worry that their sexuality is a monster that will hurt their wife. Even worse, many know this has happened in the past and they are terrified of it happening again.

A part of this is living in a world that tells us men’s sexuality is dangerous. We’ve gone from “boys will be boys” to “all men are all predators”. Neither of those is right and both are destructive. I think that for men this is a lot like body image is for women; our self-perception is distorted by those around us.

If your husband cares about you, this may be a concern for him. Maybe he has reason to think, or know, he has hurt you in the past over sexual things. Or maybe he is just afraid he has done it because he’s a man.  If you think he worries about this, deal with it head-on. If it’s happened in the past but not in a good while, thank him. If it’s never happened, thank him for that.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and sex shouldn’t be so complicated!

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