This is a post I never thought I would do because I assumed most women would say “Ewww, no way.” But a thread on The Marriage Bed Forums suggests my assumption may be wrong. The few women who replied said they liked it, and the men who posted on it said their wife liked using it. 

A stroker is a sleeve you slide over his penis and then move to make him come. Some of the shorter ones can also be used for added stimulation when you do oral on him.

Most women find a stoker is much easier on their hands. It may also provide more stimulation than your hand, so if handjobs seem to take too long, this could be another benefit. 

Many strokers are made of materials that don’t do well with silicone lube, so unless it says otherwise, assume you need a water-based lubricant. The Tenga is a disposable device that comes lubed and ready to go – might be a good try it and see if you like it item. Or toss one in the suitcase as a treat when you go on vacation. 

Married Dance has a nice selection of strokers with no nudity and nothing modelled off a real person. Buying one and surprising him with it will get you extra points!

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I guess I was wrong.

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