Humans are very much creatures of habit. While good habits can help us in many ways, bad habits hurt us.

Then there are the habits that are not inherently good or bad, that can get us in trouble because we have stopped thinking about them.

You and your husband have set ways of doing life together. Some of those habits were never the best way to do whatever. Others were once the best way, but no longer are. But because habits are strong and we don’t often think about them, you keep doing those things in far from ideal ways without even seeing it.

Some folks will even resist change when they realise the way they do things is not the best. Change is difficult and sometimes it feels easier to just keep doing something in a way that is ineffective or even harmful.

You probably see your husband’s bad or harmful habits clearly. But what about your bad or harmful habits? If you can identify and change those things it will make your marriage better. It also gives you the high ground for saying “Hey, could I get you to change _______.“

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I got lots of habits!

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