Let’s say I gave men a list of things women could be and asked them to rank how important each one is to them. If the word “consistent” was on the list, I know it would be rated very high. Consistent might not turn up if you asked the question open-ended, but if it were on the list it would be a big winner.

In truth, most men would give a great deal to have more consistency from their wives. Knowing what to expect would be awesome. Being able to count on certain things would be great.

One reason consistent would not show up on an open-ended surgery is many men don’t see it as something they will ever have. They have accepted inconsistency as inevitable with their wife and they just try to live with it.

I realise some female inconsistency is driven by a woman’s hormonal roller coaster. I won’t pretend to understand how that feels or how difficult it is to smooth it out. And to some degree, I think a husband should accept that as part of how his wife is made. But I know from personal experience that some women are rather consistent, so I assume most could be. The truth is any improvement in being consistent will bless your husband a great deal.

And yes, I know some women are consistent (married one of those) and some men are not. But I hear a lot of men complaining about this, so I’m flagging it here.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I have enough trouble dealing with my single hormone! 

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