Over on The Generous Husband, Be The Change is one of my categories and I have 149 posts under it. So when I advise you to do this, know I tell men the same thing.

If you want change, do something to bring about that change. It’s easy to think you need your husband to change and as such you have no power, but this is not true.

When you live in a relationship, anything one of you does has an effect on the other. And if you can have an effect, you can effect change. Or at least make change more likely. If you change the situation, you may precipitate in him the change you desire.

The other part of this is the reality that most of the time it’s not just him. Even if he is most of the issue, if there is some part that is yours, owning it and dealing with it causes changes and puts the ball in his court.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and change is a constant!

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A post worth reading:

Dr. Corey Carlisle | This won’t last forever ◄ Good to remember when change comes slowly!

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