Is sex a part of the whole or is it a separate corner of your marriage? #SexQuestion ~ TMB Twitter

Is your sex life a part of your shared life with your husband or is it in a separate box? Do you flow in and out of sex, or do you have to mentally change gears for sex?

I’m not suggesting you should be making out 24/7, but both your marriage and your sex life will be better for both you and hubby if there is no wall between sex and the rest of your relationship. 

To give a non-sex example, fun is part of my marriage with Lori and it flows through our marriage. So if she asks if I want to play a game I don’t have to shift gears to do that. I might be busy and say “how about later” but her wanting to play a game with me is neither sudden nor unexpected.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and sex is so much better when it’s part of the whole.

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