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I mention vibrators here from time to time, but as far as I can tell I haven’t written a post about them since Sex Toys, or Sex Tools? six and a half years ago.

So let me give you a few of the reasons I am so big on vibrators:

• Women in their thirties or even forties who had their first-ever orgasm because of a vibrator. 
• Women who wouldn’t have had an orgasm in years were it not for vibrators.
• Women who find a vibrator makes all the difference when they are tired, stressed, or at a certain point in their cycle.
• Women who are able to orgasm during intercourse because of a small vibe between her body and her husband’s body.
• Women whose husbands are not willing to be the lovers they should, but will use a vibrator.

If you do just fine without a vibrator, good for you. But if you struggle for whatever reason, a vibe can make a huge difference. Some women use them all the time. Others only occasionally. Some are fine with a little battery vibe, others need the power of a big plugin unit. Some use vibes to learn to orgasm and leave them behind, some continue to need them, and some keep using them because they like them.

I suppose in a perfect world, every woman would easily have all the orgasms she wants and vibrators would not exist. But we don’t live in a perfect world. Being willing to use what helps is a sign of wisdom.

If you’ve never bought a vibe and think perhaps you should, my suggestion is you head over to Married Dance and check out their extensive selection. 

~ Paul – I’m XY this post does not include batteries.

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