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Your husband wants sex, and you’re dead tired. I mean yeah, it would be nice, but you don’t have the energy to do what it takes.

What if hubby offered to let you just lie back while he did all the work? What if he assured you that you would orgasm before he did and would have to do absolutely nothing? Are there times when such an offer would have you saying yes when you might otherwise have said no?

A couple of years ago I suggested this on The Generous Husband and several men and women posted in the comments that this is a thing in their marriage and it works very well for them.

Now if this is all you ever do, it’s going to become a problem for your husband. But if it’s part of the whole and means you both get to enjoy sex more often, odds are he will be all for it. 

You could discuss this as a future option. Or you try replying to him seeking sex when you’re too tired by saying “I’m exhausted. But I’d love to lie here doing nothing and have you give me an orgasm before you climb on top. You okay with that?“

~ Paul – I’m XY, and you won’t know unless you try!

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Shaunti Feldhahn | Do you need to let go of control in your marriage? ◄ A powerful guest post.

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