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Say to your husband, “I like having sex with you”. Or “enjoy” or “love” or whatever you prefer. This is even more powerful if you haven’t just had sex, are not about to have sex, and are not hinting you want sex. Say it in passing or as you drive together in the car!

Many husbands, likely most, secretly fear their wife doesn’t really enjoy sex that much. Perhaps she just does it for him. Maybe it’s okay, but she doesn’t like it near as much as he enjoys it. Possibly she’s just “being nice”.

If you want to take this even further, thank him for specific things he does that you really enjoy. So you could say “I love it when you speed up just before I come” or “It feels so good when you go down on me.”

~ Paul – I’m XY, and WOW is always good right after sex.

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