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I’ve had plenty of men ask me how long it should take for their wife to reach orgasm, but I haven’t had a single one complain that it takes her too long. Men want their wife to enjoy sex, and they will do whatever it takes to make that happen: including speeding a great deal of time.

On the other hand, Lori and I have heard plenty of women worry that it takes them too long to climax. They feel it’s unfair to their husband, or worry he will get upset. And I know plenty of women who give up on some occasions not because they think they can’t get there, but because they think they are out of time. Or maybe she says “This one is just for you” even when she wants to orgasm because she fears she will need “too long” to get there.

I can’t say that no man has ever though his wife’s orgasm took more time than it was worth, but I can assure you such men are very rare. What’s more, men like that are selfish jerks in general. If your hubby isn’t a selfish jerk, odds are very high he will gladly give you all the time in the world to reach The Big O.

If you don’t believe me, ask him. Ask him how long is too long for him to spend pleasuring you to climax. Then believe what he says.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I’m in for as long as it takes!

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