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Recently, my very wise wife asked me, “Can I tell you something without you taking offence for me?” When I said yes, she told me about something unkind someone had said to her.

The preamble question helped me fight the urge to take offence. It also let me know Lori was not expecting me to confront the other person. It was brilliant and helpful.

You could do much the same with any number of things you need to share with your husband. You could ask a question or make a statement. This prepares him, and lets him know what you expect from him. It keeps him from going in a direction you don’t want, and makes it more likely he will be understanding and helpful.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I was still a bit offended, but I got over it faster.

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